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The Friend Zone Is a Made-Up Excuse — Here’s What’s Really Happening

Where’s that zone you’d put your friend into anyway?

Mar 7

The Friend Zone Is a Made-Up Excuse — Here’s What’s Really Happening

Mar 7

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Hard Truths About Affairs Nobody Wants to Hear but Everybody Knows

Fidelity is more complicated than we’d like to admit

Aug 1, 2023

Hard Truths About Affairs Nobody Wants to Hear but Everybody Knows

Aug 1, 2023

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My New Love Has Changed Everything, Forever

I am a mother now

Jul 11, 2023

My New Love Has Changed Everything, Forever

Jul 11, 2023

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Motherhood, Masculinity, and the Fight for Equality: Why I’m Raising a Feminist Son

I want my son to be the force of change this world needs

2d ago

Motherhood, Masculinity, and the Fight for Equality: Why I’m Raising a Feminist Son

2d ago

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Unexpected Traits That Make Someone an Amazing Lover

Have you found your perfect match?

5d ago

Unexpected Traits That Make Someone an Amazing Lover

5d ago

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Why Happy Couples Cheat: The Dark Truth About Long-Term Relationships

The secrets and lies no one talks about.

Mar 26

Why Happy Couples Cheat: The Dark Truth About Long-Term Relationships

Mar 26

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Why Love Isn’t a Pie Chart (And Why We Should Stop Ranking It)

Lessons about love my baby son taught me

Mar 24

Why Love Isn’t a Pie Chart (And Why We Should Stop Ranking It)

Mar 24

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Heart Affairs

From Matches to Meltdowns: What They Don’t Tell You About Online Dating

Looks, bad algorithms, and hard truths about online dating.

Mar 22

From Matches to Meltdowns: What They Don’t Tell You About Online Dating

Mar 22

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Toxic Relationships Are Highly Addictive, Here’s Why

Breaking patterns is much harder than we’d like to admit.

Mar 20

Toxic Relationships Are Highly Addictive, Here’s Why

Mar 20

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Compatibility vs. Love: How I Mistook One for the Other (And You Are Too)

Masquerading as love — the compatibility trap explained.

Mar 18

Compatibility vs. Love: How I Mistook One for the Other (And You Are Too)

Mar 18

Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

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Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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