Published inThe Secret Society·PinnedMember-onlyHard Truths About Affairs Nobody Wants to Hear but Everybody KnowsFidelity is more complicated than we’d like to admit — Although nobody thinks highly of affairs, surprisingly, many have them. It is estimated that over 40% of married couples have had infidelity issues. Here’s the thing. Suppose everyone has experienced cheating in one way or another. In that case, there must be more to having affairs than we would like…Love5 min readLove5 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·PinnedMember-onlyCharacteristics That Make a Person Irresistible That Have Nothing to Do With Looks, According to ScienceIs how we act more important than our looks? — Have you ever been attracted to someone who doesn’t fit the popular ideal of beauty? I know for a fact that I have. I like people with a positive charisma and a certain mischievousness. And then there are people who can tell stories and make me laugh — another trait…Love4 min readLove4 min read
Published inHeart & Soul·PinnedMember-onlyMy New Love Has Changed Everything, ForeverI am a mother now — I took a lot of time to prepare myself in the best possible way for this new, biggest chapter of my life. I had nine months to come to terms with becoming a mother. I did everything possible, bought books, listened to podcasts, and took classes. All because I knew…Love3 min readLove3 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·PinnedMember-onlySix Sentences That Are More Important Than I Love YouHow to make the ultimate declaration of love — If I were to ask you how you go about making the perfect declaration of love, what would you say? Would you make a romantic gesture like cooking a great meal or buying flowers occasionally? Or are you more of the type making a public display of your love? Is…Love4 min readLove4 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·Sep 14Member-onlyEmotional Cheating Is Worse Than a Physical Affair, Here’s WhyEmotional connections are gateways to something more — Typically, cheating means having sexual or romantic ties to someone other than your significant other. And in doing so, breaking the commitment or promise given. However, what is considered cheating is subjective. So, where do you draw the line? To me, having one too many drinks and making out with…Emotions5 min readEmotions5 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·Sep 10Member-onlySex Isn’t as Important as Many Think, Here Is WhyThings therapists consider more important — For many, sex is an important part of their relationship. For others, sex isn’t all that important. No matter who you ask, ultimately, sex and relationships belong together. Therefore, for most people, these two are inextricably linked. But why is that? For some, sex is a way of showing affection. …Sex4 min readSex4 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·Sep 8Member-onlyUnexpected Little Things That Boost Any Romantic RelationshipIt’s not the big gestures that make it count — We all want our relationship to last. Therefore, what would you say if I told you that there are simple little things you can do to boost your relationship? I bet you’d want to know if your actions are good for your relationship. As we all know, relationships are hard…Relationships5 min readRelationships5 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·Sep 6Member-onlyHow Hindsight Bias Is Affecting Your Perception of Past RelationshipsMemories of relationships aren’t that trustworthy — Have you ever thought that a past relationship was a mistake? If so, why? Were you not compatible but had crazy chemistry and gave it a go anyway? Or was your relationship impacted by infidelity and other lies? Whatever the reasons may be, most of us have romantic regrets. In…Love5 min readLove5 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·Sep 4Member-onlyHere’s Why Affairs Are So Common, According to PsychologyIs it simply human nature? — Nobody wants to be a cheater, but surprisingly many are. And although nobody thinks highly of adulterers, affairs are still a thing. This had me thinking. A study by the Austin Institute found that infidelity accounted for about 37 percent of divorces in the U.S. Another estimate found that over…Love5 min readLove5 min read
Published inThe Secret Society·Sep 2Member-onlyHandling Relationship Expectations Is Hard, Emotions Even HarderIt’s not what is said, it’s all about the unsaid — How often do you talk about emotions with your partner? Are you open about how things make you feel, or do you prefer to keep things to yourself? And how long do you ponder on things before you speak your mind? This is an unpopular opinion, but I think that…Love3 min readLove3 min read
