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The Friend Zone Is a Made-Up Excuse — Here’s What’s Really Happening

Where’s that zone you’d put your friend into anyway?

Mar 7

The Friend Zone Is a Made-Up Excuse — Here’s What’s Really Happening

Mar 7

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The Secret Society

Hard Truths About Affairs Nobody Wants to Hear but Everybody Knows

Fidelity is more complicated than we’d like to admit

Aug 1, 2023

Hard Truths About Affairs Nobody Wants to Hear but Everybody Knows

Aug 1, 2023

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Heart & Soul

My New Love Has Changed Everything, Forever

I am a mother now

Jul 11, 2023

My New Love Has Changed Everything, Forever

Jul 11, 2023

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Heart & Soul

Why Love Isn’t a Pie Chart (And Why We Should Stop Ranking It)

Lessons about love my baby son taught me

1d ago

Why Love Isn’t a Pie Chart (And Why We Should Stop Ranking It)

1d ago

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Heart Affairs

From Matches to Meltdowns: What They Don’t Tell You About Online Dating

Looks, bad algorithms, and hard truths about online dating.

3d ago

From Matches to Meltdowns: What They Don’t Tell You About Online Dating

3d ago

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The Secret Society

Toxic Relationships Are Highly Addictive, Here’s Why

Breaking patterns is much harder than we’d like to admit.

5d ago

Toxic Relationships Are Highly Addictive, Here’s Why

5d ago

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The Secret Society

Compatibility vs. Love: How I Mistook One for the Other (And You Are Too)

Masquerading as love — the compatibility trap explained.

Mar 18

Compatibility vs. Love: How I Mistook One for the Other (And You Are Too)

Mar 18

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Heart Affairs

How My Past Relationships Made Me a Better Partner Today

What my exes taught me about love, growth, and happiness.

Mar 15

How My Past Relationships Made Me a Better Partner Today

Mar 15

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The Secret Society

You Can Forget Your Exes, but There’s No Need to Forgive Them

Forgiveness can become toxic quickly.

Mar 14

You Can Forget Your Exes, but There’s No Need to Forgive Them

Mar 14

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The Secret Society

Second-Chance Couples Know a Love Secret You Don’t — Here It Is

Is giving love another shot always the right thing to do?

Mar 11

Second-Chance Couples Know a Love Secret You Don’t — Here It Is

Mar 11

Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

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Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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