Why Is It So Hard to Find the Perfect Life Partner?

High expectations, values, chance, and other obstacles

Phoebe Kirke
The Secret Society
Published in
4 min readNov 28, 2023

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Dating is hard work. Especially when considering shifting societal expectations, technology, and a pandemic. It’s hard to open up to someone while trying not to get hurt. Unfortunately, when it comes to love, getting hurt is inevitable. And although it’s hard for many, finding the…

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Phoebe Kirke
The Secret Society

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.